Both sample devilishly excellent, but both of them are sinfully terrible! But, what-is-it about a married or even the alleged ‘committed’ boyfriend that lures lady? Do you find it the excitement to be the ‘other woman’? Or the guarantee of like? We investigate. Dr Kamal Khurana, a married relationship and commitment therapist explains, “Women who be seduced by married men are usually trying to find consideration and emotional support.